Tied the Knot

Author: Miranda

On February 1st of 2014, Pete and I, along with seventy of our gringo friends and family, were part of the greatest party that I have yet seen.  We got hitched in Cartagena, Colombia.

We actually argued for many months on the location of our wedding.  Being what I’d like to think of as a simple, downhome girl from Wisconsin, my main priorities were lots of friends, lots of family, plenty of beer, and a rip-roaring good time in a someone’s old barn.

Pete thought differently though.  He was adamant that we get married in a location that was meaningful for us.  I also remember him saying, “but Miranda, we have this crazy travel-filled life, we need to have a crazy, out-of-the-ordinary wedding.”  In the end he was spot-on.  Our relationship began in one of the most beautiful cities this side of the prime meridian, and what better location to get married.

What did me in were two factors.  One selfish, and one not… as…  selfish, I suppose.  First, the pictures!  When things looked they were at a stalemate, Pete pulled from his sleeve his last remaining ace, and found wedding pictures from Cartagena, and I was immediately ooh-ing and ah-ing.  The photos we could take in the old city, up on the 16th century walls, on carriages winding through cobblestone streets, the sunsets, the lighting… I was starting to lose my nerve.

The second, and real reason for my eventual concession was the opportunity to share our passion for a life on the road less traveled with those whom we love most in this world.  We absolutely adore our expat life that we’ve created, but deep down I always harbor some insecurity that no one back home really has any idea WHY the hell we’d do this.  Our wedding could be the perfect opportunity to share not only our decision to spend the rest of our lives together, but also share a piece of ourselves with our loved ones.

The third, honorable mention, reason for jumping on the destination wedding bandwagon was simply the amount of time you get to spend with your guests.  Instead of just one day, we had an entire week of festivities!

 

Tuesday was everyone’s initiation to latin culture by way of salsa lessons.

Started with a late lunch at an Argentinian Steakhouse.

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Most were fairly tired from early flights, but they rallied well, and we headed to the Getsemani neighborhood for our lessons.

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I was told the instructors would speak English, which didn’t turn out to be true, but my gringos were just fine without it.  Hard to be mad at these two adorable Costeños.

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We organized a party bus, called a Chiva, for Wednesday night.

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 Complete with live band and free rum!

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A trip to Playa Blanca and the Rosario Islands on Thursday, along with our Bachelor and Bachelorette parties that same evening.

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 Our last pic before parting for the bachelor and bachelorette parties:

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On Friday, we rented a coach bus to take our guests to the Castillo San Felipe and La Popa, two of the major sites in Cartagena proper.

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Our rehearsal dinner, on Friday evening, was open for all to attend, which made for one big group!  The views were killer, atop the walls, at Casa de Cerveza.

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Saturday was the big day.  Along with our wedding party and our parents, we moved from our hotels to Casa Estrella, a stunning colonial house with antique decorations, loads of space, and a central courtyard big enough for the dinner, dancing, and possible jump in the pool if enough libations were had.  Here is Casa Estrella:

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Pete and I both got ready in the house, him with his favorite boys, and me with my very special ladies.

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Our ceremony took place at on the roof-top of Hotel Movich, which was just down the street from Casa Estrella.  The boys walked stud-ly down the street, and I was taken by carriage with my Pops.  It was a quick, but touching ceremony, and my always stoic aunt came up to me after and said, “I even cried.”  Being hilarious because aunt Patti never cries… and even she knows that’s a big deal.

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Pete and I left our poor guests on the terrace to mingle, down mojitos, and take in the view of the sunset while we took a spin around el centro with the photographer in our carriage.  The city did not disappoint, as you can see. 

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We beat our guests back to Casa Estrella to fix a few wardrobe malfunctions.  Nothing serious.  Just some bustling and rogue fake eyelashes to deal with.  Once everyone arrived at the house, we sat for dinner and listened to the speeches (another one of my favorite moments).  Much too much crying on my part, but nothing a little live band couldn’t fix.

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Our first dance started out slow and sweet, but soon knocked our guests in the teeth!

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We danced into the wee hours of the night, until eyes starting falling to half-mast, and high-heels were long tossed by the wayside.

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The climax of the night was the Hora Loca, which Pete and I kept as a secret from our guests.  Seeing their faces when a troupe of dancers, in costume, and a new band, banging hard on their drums, surfaced… their looks of “what the hell is going on!”… was priceless!

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Sunday, our guests came by Casa Estrella to swim in the pool and relax in front of the T.V. to watch the Super Bowl together.

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On Monday, we had to check out of Casa Estrella.  Sadness!

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Before leaving the house, the boys made sure to get plenty of time playing with the resident parrot.

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Many guests still found time to head to the beaches of Bocagrande, Zona Norte, or to the Botanical Gardens.  In the evening, we got the whole group together one last time for dinner at San Pedro.

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Tuesday was the heart-wrenching day when most of our guests flew back to the states, leaving the tropical dreamland, and heading back to work.

 

Tuesday, for us, once the smoke cleared, the flights took off, and everything went eerily quite was characterized by three competing emotions: sheer and utter exhaustion, heart filling make-you-want-to explode happiness, and gut-wrenching sadness that it was all over.  A fourth one always snuck in though, and consistently beat out those first three to the top… and that was gratitude.  We could not have been more blessed with a group of folks more fun-loving, gracious, flexible, and caring.  How did we ever get so lucky?  Truly.  Thank you, each and every person, who was there with us (and there in spirit).  We’ve never felt more love.

Can we please, pretty please, pluuuulezeeee, do it again sometime!  😉

With much love,

Miranda and Pete

 

for the full set of pictures highlighted by our photographer, click here: Miranda & Pete, Cartagena – Blog Matfotografia

Tasman Crossing: Day 10 Landfall

Author: Pete
Location: Brisbane, Australia

 

LAND HO!!!!! After 10 days crossing the Tasman Sea, Tayrona pulls safely into Brisbane, Australia!

Miranda spotted land low on the horizon this morning and shook me from my graveyard-shift-induced slumber. There it was, Australia. After two years of sailing west towards this moment it was pretty much impossible to hold back. A solid, “LAND HO!” burst forth from Miranda. Okay, it was me, but she was pretty excited too.

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It took a full day to navigate around Moreton Island and into the Brisbane river. Once you see land, it’s another sixty miles into port. It’s pretty much the slowest day ever. Just… grinds… Didn’t help that we had a head wind of fifteen knots and choppy irksome waves on the bow that made Tayrona lurch and stagger like a prize fighter on a losing streak.

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For a while it looked like the day would be stretched out to grueling eternity, but once we were in the lee of the island the waves smoothed out to zilch and our new course provided a favorable wind angle. We unfurled the sails and shot off at eight knots. I was so happy that we didn’t have to motor Tayrona in on her last landfall like some kind of clunky trawler. She wants to sail in!

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And sail we did. Sunset ’round these parts is five-thirty, and the cloudless day afforded a blazing, clear sunset as we approached the Brisbane River.

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We dodged a few cargo ships making for sea, and then navigated five miles up river in the dark. Is green on the right here, or is that the other way around? We eventually tied up at the Riverside Marina quarantine dock and were checked in by customs despite the late hour.

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I’m incandescent. We made it. We sailed to Australia.

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Tauranga and White Island, NZ

Author:  Pete
Location: New Zealand

 

The girls and I boldly cowered from the gale for three days in Tauranga.  For ye purists out there, gales are generally classified as having 30-40 knots of wind, where storms have roughly 50-60, almost a hurricane at 70+ knots.  Since wind power increases exponentially with velocity, gales are rough, but storms are serious bad news.  When people talk about storms, they generally mean gales.  But I digress…  After ripping in from Mayors Island we had a heck of a time tying up to the slip with uncooperative current and twenty stubborn knots of wind yanking on Tayrona.  It might be said that this was the worst job we’ve ever done.  At one point, the dockhand helping us wrangle the boat said, “What are you feeding this beast!?”  A steady diet of rusty docking skills drizzled with adverse weather conditions!

Once Tay-Tay was properly secured with every line aboard, the finger pier looked like it had been descended upon by Spiderman on a meth bender.  Good thing too; the gloomy forecast didn’t disappoint.  Concerned yachtsmen showed up from a hundred miles away to add more lines and fenders to their beloved vessels.  Hushed whispers of the fifty-knot gusts predicted haunted the wharf.
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The wind built steadily through the night and into the next day without sign of easing.  Tayrona was not in optimal position with the brunt of the wind blowing rudely in from aft.  Her high windage gave purchase to the gusts, and all day our lines grumbled audibly under the strain.  I added a few extra just for kicks.  As the gale progressed, the rain adopted a trajectory more commonly seen from an open fire hydrant.  We watched nature’s fury from the comfort of the salon over coffee.

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There was a pronounced hour in the night where the raging wind subsided leaving only biblical rainfall.  Mixing with darkness, the torrents so completely engulfed poor Tayrona that at some point I assumed we had sunk at the dock and were in fact underwater.  Finally the morning skies cleared.  Though some low clouds still clung child-like to Tauranga’s skirts, the sun peeked out and dried the decks. 

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We walked three kilometers into town to stretch our legs and enjoy the prodigal sunshine.  On the way back we stopped at Bobby’s, a legendary fish market dive that fries up big platters of battered seafood and french fries.  “Bes fushn’chups n’a country!”, a passing gent with a tray of crispy goodness said to us as we wafted into the market.  Consulting our Kiwi-English translator we realized that he meant, “Best fish and chips in all the land!”  We translated, “Thank you very kindly, sir”, and replied, “Cheeyas mayte!”

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We were up before sunrise the next morning, making coffee and throwing off dock lines. Tayrona eased out of the slip without recollection of the ordeal it had been to get her in.  We made for the pass and snuck out of port like a thief in the night, heading east towards White Island under favorable winds.  Named Whakaari in Maori, which means ‘dramatic island’, the island is the Kiwis’ most active sea volcano, constantly spewing gasses from its active crater.  We were going to keep the drama queen company for a day or two.

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The day couldn’t have been more perfect.  We had a gorgeous fifty-mile spinnaker run, escorted by dolphins, and trolling for kingfish.  Morning wind from astern started light built throughout the idyllic day.  Soon we were making eight knots, almost expecting the hulls to clear the water as we barreled over the long-period rollers.  The only marring of the blue sky was a lone cloud at the horizon, eventually a dark mass appeared beneath it, Whakaari belching its vapor plume.

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We already had permission to tie to a mooring in Te Awápuia Bay, content with the pleasant passage and our interesting anchorage.  The air of elation aboard was quickly replaced by noxious fumes from the venting island.  Seems we were directly downwind of the crater.  Nostrils puckering and eyes watering, we took refuge in the boat and dogged the hatches.  Eventually the wind shifted and the the island ceased its chemical attack on poor Tayrona.  One never fully lost the drifting scent of sulphur from the unapologetically off-gassing island.  I thought the situation might lend itself to an evening of my own unapologetic off-gassing, but Miranda thought differently.

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The next morning the gannets from the nearby colony flew formations overhead.  The bay was clear of the green sulphur plumes sometimes ejected into the waters by the island’s volcanic vents.  Apparently they come and go in a dance depending on the swirl of the currents and the gastric temperament of the island.  The rippling bottom of the anchorage is a dark volcanic sand, low density that would make anchoring a pain.  I was glad to have been on a mooring the previous night.  Fish and rays hugged the bouldered drop off.

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The island is privately owned and under close scientific study due to its activity, which makes landing prohibited without a guide.  We organized to meet up with White Island Tours here before we left Tauranga. They picked us up in a RIB in the afternoon and ferried us to the pummeled remnants of a wharf to explore.  The crumbling remnants of an nineteenth century sulfite mine haunted the flats near the landing area and great pillars of steam stood tall in the crater.  Craggy terrain painted up with yellows, oranges, and reds stretched from crater floor to rim.  We slapped on gas masks and hard hats and followed our guide into the plumes.  Even through the respirator the air’s bite made one’s throat scratchy.  We poked around the mud pools, steaming vents, and hot runoff rivulets.  In the center of the island a lake of acidic mud roiled, throwing blue sulphur dioxide plumes that rose several hundred feet into the air.  We explored the volcanic island and the old mining site for a few hours and then were ferried back to the boat.

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Woke in the middle of the night to an onshore wind and building chop.  The anchorage wasn’t exactly cosy to begin with and now our gassy host was shaking us awake and telling us to get lost.  Under a full moon we ditched out of the bay and happily rode the twenty-knot downwind breeze back towards the Coromandel.  Ducking rocky islets and freighters along the way we covered what had previously taken us three days’ sail in sixteen jostling hours.  We dropped hook on Great Mercury Island and slept like the dead in the flat anchorage.

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Dragged ourselves begrudgingly out of our berths the next morning for a fifty-mile run to Motuihe, just off Auckland.  The wind was still providing us a favorable run, this time more comfortable (read: slower) under spinnaker.  The leisurely pace gave us time to address the significant corrosion wrought by volcanic gasses on the stainless.  All our glittering steel had turned to russet corduroy.  It thankfully came off, but not without a good deal of scouring.  It’s glamorous, the life of a sailor.

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After a quick stopover night in Motuihe we motor-sailed back to our comfy Beach Haven mooring.  Just as we were coming into the harbor the starboard engine overheated at the exact moment that we were descended upon by a thousand race boats from the Wednesday night Auckland regatta.  I shut down the engine and jumped in the pit and Miranda took the helm, slaloming through the oncoming traffic.  I’m glad she was driving; I’ve never been too adept in an arcade, and it felt like a giant game of Tayrona Asteroids.  Fast moving ferries, maneuvering container ships, and a bottleneck at the Auckland Harbor Bridge added to the maelstrom.  It was all very exciting. 

By the time we reached our old mooring I had replaced the impeller on the raw water pump and the thermostat and we were back in business!  Still, we tied up on only one engine until I could verify all was well with Belinda.  The next morning I tore down the whole cooling system and also went up the mast to scour the rigging back into shiny shape.  Always something fun going on aboard Tayrona!

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